Have You Found Her: A Memoir
by Janice Erlbaum
by Janice Erlbaum
HAVE YOU FOUND HER by Janice Erlbaum
Category: Non-Fiction
Age Recommendation: Grades 9+
Release Date: 2/12/08
Publisher: Villard
Reviewed by: coollibrarianchick
Rating: 5 Stars
I just finished a book, after running back to the beach because it was mistakenly left there, that I am going to pass on to
everyone looking for a good book to read. HAVE YOU FOUND HER by Janice Erlbaum was a gut-wrenching, pull-at-
your-heart strings, can’t-put-it-down memoir. It actually reads like a novel, a suspenseful one at that, full of plot twists and
turns. I finished it in two days. The little blurb I read about it in my local library’s Bookpage didn’t do the book justice.
Janice Erlbaum one day decided to volunteer at a homeless shelter for teens in NYC. Very noble of her, don’t you think?
Volunteering at this one homeless shelter was more than just an act of graciousness for her. Twenty years ago, she lived at
that shelter for a time. She wanted to do something for these kids, show that you can change your situation and become
successful. Janice definitely changed her life for the better. Now she is a successful author, living in a nice apartment with
her husband (or domestic partner, as she calls him) and three cats.
At first, the volunteering doesn’t go very well. Her nervousness shows and the kids are gravitating to her for help. Janice is
just not sure if she can do it. She soon realizes she has to have a shtick if she wants their attention and find a younger
version of herself to help. So one day, she brings a bag full of beads for a craft-making jewelry session. It does the trick
and she is forever known as the Bead Lady.
One of the rules of the place is “Don’t choose favorites." That rule goes completely out the window when Janice meets
Samantha. Samantha is a brilliant junkie who has been on her own since she was twelve. She is incredibly lovable and also
incredibly damaged. Samantha says a lot of things throughout the time Janice comes to know her that should be questioned.
At any rate, Janice ends up falling for Sam – not a romantic love like she has for Bill, but in a deeply caring,
friendship/parental way. She wants to save Sam from the streets, and this leads Janice and Sam through hospitals and
halfway houses and rehabs.
The one thing Janice never suspected was how sick Sam really was…….
The book was like a roller coaster ride for me. When Sam was up, in good health, on the right track, you cheered -- but
when she was down, sick, so weak that you though she would die at any second, you couldn’t help but get sad and
emotional. You start to wonder if you can really save another person's soul.
I just wonder where Sam is now…..
Category: Non-Fiction
Age Recommendation: Grades 9+
Release Date: 2/12/08
Publisher: Villard
Reviewed by: coollibrarianchick
Rating: 5 Stars
I just finished a book, after running back to the beach because it was mistakenly left there, that I am going to pass on to
everyone looking for a good book to read. HAVE YOU FOUND HER by Janice Erlbaum was a gut-wrenching, pull-at-
your-heart strings, can’t-put-it-down memoir. It actually reads like a novel, a suspenseful one at that, full of plot twists and
turns. I finished it in two days. The little blurb I read about it in my local library’s Bookpage didn’t do the book justice.
Janice Erlbaum one day decided to volunteer at a homeless shelter for teens in NYC. Very noble of her, don’t you think?
Volunteering at this one homeless shelter was more than just an act of graciousness for her. Twenty years ago, she lived at
that shelter for a time. She wanted to do something for these kids, show that you can change your situation and become
successful. Janice definitely changed her life for the better. Now she is a successful author, living in a nice apartment with
her husband (or domestic partner, as she calls him) and three cats.
At first, the volunteering doesn’t go very well. Her nervousness shows and the kids are gravitating to her for help. Janice is
just not sure if she can do it. She soon realizes she has to have a shtick if she wants their attention and find a younger
version of herself to help. So one day, she brings a bag full of beads for a craft-making jewelry session. It does the trick
and she is forever known as the Bead Lady.
One of the rules of the place is “Don’t choose favorites." That rule goes completely out the window when Janice meets
Samantha. Samantha is a brilliant junkie who has been on her own since she was twelve. She is incredibly lovable and also
incredibly damaged. Samantha says a lot of things throughout the time Janice comes to know her that should be questioned.
At any rate, Janice ends up falling for Sam – not a romantic love like she has for Bill, but in a deeply caring,
friendship/parental way. She wants to save Sam from the streets, and this leads Janice and Sam through hospitals and
halfway houses and rehabs.
The one thing Janice never suspected was how sick Sam really was…….
The book was like a roller coaster ride for me. When Sam was up, in good health, on the right track, you cheered -- but
when she was down, sick, so weak that you though she would die at any second, you couldn’t help but get sad and
emotional. You start to wonder if you can really save another person's soul.
I just wonder where Sam is now…..